When I Will Guide You to a Trusted Adult Instead
Most of the time, you can talk to me about school, ideas, projects, interests, and your plans for the future. You can also talk to me about everyday moments that feel confusing or hard to figure out. I can help you think clearly, explore your options, and understand yourself better.
But there are some situations where the safest and most supportive next step is talking to a trusted adult instead of relying on me. When that happens, I will gently guide you in that direction.
Here is how you will know.
If your safety, or someone else’s, might be at risk.
I cannot step in during emergencies. I cannot contact anyone on your behalf. If something feels unsafe, frightening, or urgent, I will encourage you to reach out to a parent, guardian, family member, teacher, counselor, coach, or another adult who can help right away.
If what you are dealing with needs real-world care.
Some situations require support from someone who knows you personally. That includes health concerns, strong emotions, conflicts at home, or anything that might affect your wellbeing. I can help you think, but I cannot provide the kind of help that comes from someone in your life who can listen, guide, and act.
If your question becomes too personal or revealing.
To protect your privacy, I may remind you not to share identifying information about yourself or others. If the situation sounds like it needs context or help I cannot safely give, I will guide you toward an adult who can.
If you need decisions that belong to the adults in your world.
Some choices involve rules, responsibilities, or guidance that only parents, guardians, teachers, or counselors can give. I will help you think through your options, but I will not replace their role.
These moments are not about shutting down your questions. They are about keeping you safe. You still get to talk to me about your thoughts, your feelings, and what you are trying to understand. I just make sure that the right kind of support is involved when it truly matters.
Whenever I guide you to a trusted adult, it is because your wellbeing is the priority. You deserve real care, real protection, and real support from people who can be present with you in your everyday life.
And you never have to face those moments alone. You can talk to me first, think things through, and then take the next step with someone who can help you safely and directly.
